Do you Perceive yourself to be a Winner?

How do we define a winner?

Most apparently the one who evolves out to be a VICTOR in virtually everything that he/she does. But, how often do we analyze the causes behind a winner’s position? Very comfortably we assume and blame it on their stars or a lot of times, luck. Isn’t it? In my opinion, a winner is one who SIMPLY THINKS HE HAS THE MINDSET TO BE ONE! And it’s no one night tale or a jackpot game. You win only if you think you can and also strive for that level.

Despite turbulence, one who churns out positivism and effectively work towards attaining goals. You choose to be a winner, and when you choose it with determination, you would certainly work out ways without depending on circumstances. Develop your PERCEPTION and hold an authority to shape your own life and not be tamed by conditions. My folks, the day you take responsibility of surviving the odds, and endure to victory, you would become invulnerable to conditions which more often than not try to influence our mindset.  You got to know your purpose and then make strategies to realize it. Wake and embrace HOPE AND DREAMS for then is when you would actually know what you are here for.

Just be clear with your perspectives and be an owner of CLARITY AND NOT CONFUSION. Your PERCEPTION would reflect your SUBSTANCE, so always utilize your imagination well and carve a character that just spells WILL AND COURAGE. Don’t be a victim; strive to be a SURVIVOR, that’s what WINNERS are made up of! Whether you take it as an advice or as a mantra, it will definitely fall in your favor. 

What’s your Maintaining Self Confidence Regime?

Self confidence is primary in order to have the NEVER-SAY-DIE survivor attitude. So, first things first, are you self confident? Well, how do you really gauge that? In the most interpretative language, when you have the right will and courage to deal with almost any circumstance regardless of fearing the consequences. Self confidence is being totally SECURE about what you are and believing in your self. You are never born with self-confidence, it’s a transition and you have to accommodate your perception to achieve an optimum level of self confidence that is both commendable and enviable as well.

Ø  We got to love and accept ourselves exactly the way we are and not expect anything huge that is beyond our attainment scale. Keep striving and never compare yourself with others’ achievements. Compete with yourself and believe that whatever you put your mind into can be accomplished. However self assessment is essential.

 ØAlways create realistic standards and strive to realize those. Don’t just be always on the verge to kick yourself at mistakes made here and there.

Ø  Brush off negative thinking cells from your system, and trust me the day you do that, confidence would become your second identity.

Ø  Have self pride but never metamorphose it into vanity.

Ø  Don’t rush into things just because you are on a mission to prove yourself to others. Give yourself time and have patience till you attain victory. Keep striving with utmost dedication, passion and focus.

Believe that you are special, and worthy of accomplishments, just keep the self-confidence membrane intact and you shall see opportunities getting unfolded to embrace you! 

Give Life a Hug Each Day

"Life is not having or getting, but being and becoming"

Well, I could not have started this post better, than by quoting this thoughtful saying by Mathew Arnold. This post is a simple way for me to yet again connect with my readers and talk about my favorite topic, motivation for life.

It’s just another day when I am driving back home, while gazing at the drizzle, with a thankful heart. How nature just sometimes give us pleasant surprises which we never await? How sometimes some incidents transform the meaning of life which we never anticipate? Life is, for good, things are, for better!

Each day of life is like that surprise birthday gift that you unwrap, with several expectations about what would be beneath, heart brimming over with joy and hopes. But, in real life, do we really appreciate our days and make the most of it? Do we really walk with hope everyday and take whatever comes along in our stride? Do we look at things as opportunities to take control of our lives and make it better? Just a pause to keep you thinking on that……

Motivations in life

Life is a canvas, a huge, blank one, where we are the artists to decide our strokes. Your definition of life is completely determined by you. Make it a paradise yourself, nobody is born to be in a heavenly life, it’s simply how we perceive it to be. Allow your heart to love, to thank, to forgive, to laugh, to hope, to nurture courage, to survive miseries yet expect a good day and to grow.

Start appreciating yourself, honestly and look into the mirror with pride and honor. Life is not what you have but what you are, your being, and what you become. The way you steer it, the routes will be made! Your life is your identity, it is synonymous to you. Not everything comes in a sugar coated form in life, and not everytime things will turn out to be what you plan. You have to make time to fix these more often than not bugs, without failing.

You know often we just make a mountain of situations and start complaining, instead if would just look at it as a phase and think wisely, your heart would feel much better, so would you. You don’t have to try hard to achieve happiness, it’s just a regular thing, it’s not a plan, it’s not a destination either, it’s something that is as basic as eating food, you just simply invite happiness, and it shall abide, it’s that dutiful and loyal.

Don’t even look for it, just stay calm, and appreciate the best things about your life and there you go, a ready smile on your face. There’s no great soul without trials, so even when the wind is not in your favour, you need to hope for a stable weather.

Kiss your life everyday, give it a hug without expecting anything back, and you will realize how it falls for you; see the beauty of being and the feeling of becoming! If you wish, so you will and if you will, there’s nothing that can hinder you from achieving the life that you dream of. Don’t forget to have a clandestine love affair with your life, for that’s the beauty of bonding with yourself for a lifetime. Did I mention that start applauding yourself and the way your life is…..for that’s the greatest achievement one could have.

P.S – There’s nothing as exciting as life, and there’s no one as beautiful as its respective holder. 

Are you Pursuing Your Passion?

Are you doing what your passion is? Discover your passion!

Finding your true passion is a mission that you must realize in order to be happy. What you do for the sake of responsibilities or external pressures might take a toll on your real self. Meet yourself, find your passion and experience an innate happiness that comes along as an effect.

Something and anything that comes naturally to you can be defined as your ultimate urge or passion. Any particular event, activity or a thing that brings smile and brightens your face, is the key to real bliss. The most important thing is to figure out the reason why you were put on Earth. Make time to find out the purpose of your life that brings peace to your heart and eventually makes you happy. Anything that you would never get enough of is your real passion and purpose of life.

Assess yourself, your being and your interests; watch out for an activity that makes you return to it again and again. Passion gives way to motivation as well, and motivation leads to a fulfilling life.  Look around and peep within, what is it that makes you go insane about something? What is it that you would want to do for the rest of your life? What is it that frames a meaning of life for you? What is it that gives way to your utmost creativity? And what is it that brings the best out of you?

Most importantly, your passion would be something for which dollar holds trivial value. The most passionate people do not chase money, they chase calibre building and then something done over and over again, brings monetary luck also, eventually!

When you are not afraid of failures and you are never be tired of talking about it, you are living a life of your choice. So now if you are already smiling thinking of the something that you really love doing, waste no time and go ahead to make it happen, just the way you want it to be!

Cheers to Life! 

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